Change of scenery…

Got tired of looking at that sad-looking orange tree from my previous posting.  I guess Father Winter was not too kind and it is showing its effect.

Let me update you on my do-abouts.  I have gone back to walking.  Check the temperature before I leave the apartment so I know to bundle up or not.  In the past few days it has been a tad too warm even for myself.  Do not want heat too early in the season.  You know what I mean.  Too much of anything is just plain not good.

Nothing has change, except that I told myself last night that enough is enough.  I am not putting up with my kind of too laxed attitude towards everything.  Need to take my life and the road less travelled more seriously.  So this morning I have been a lean, moving machine.

I am reading a book that says that energy follows thought.  Wow and wow again!  Have to be selective and careful with my thoughts because that’s where my energy is going.  Am I in trouble.  But that is being corrected as I type.  Have practiced my French, and checking items off the “Do List.”  Yes, even I have a few of those.

I am doing my best to be effective and productive with my time, at least for the past eight hours.  I intend to keep on keeping on.

So…it was today…25 January, 2012…a day to become a better leaner me.

Your Happy Contessa

“You may delay, but time will not.”  Benjamin Franklin, one of the Founding Fathers of the United States of America.  6 January, 1705 – 17 April, 1790.

Happy New Day!!!!

Oops, I almost forgot my username and password with WordPress.  Use or lose it…that’s what they say.

Lots of intentions, plans and ambitious goals.  I am all excited!!  So many things to do and a whole year to do it.  Well…not so whole already.

I need to get my neurons back on the gravy train again.  What does that mean?  It sounds good, so let’s leave it at that.  Do not want to get too critical this early, considering my good intention to come back to blogging.  I am kind of somewhat a perfectionist, so I will become less critical and more relaxed with myself.  It is either that, or lots of stress.

Oh, yes…less stress and absolutely no drama.

Let me make something clear from the beginning, postings will not be as often as before, I told you, I am a new and improved being, so I am really chillin with my life.  I almost forgot on New Year’s Eve that it was New Year’s Eve.  I am really cool with whatever happens and when it happens.  Doesn’t sound like I am having a good attitude.  Yes, it is true, I have changed from good to better.  Go with the flow…when it happens, it happens.

Thank you my buddies for putting up with me and my brand new style.  I will keep you informed how this thing works in real life.  Knowing myself…I am somewhat already feeling a teeny-bitsy stress?

Not really…

So…it was today…19 January, 2012…a perfect day to post a draft made January 2nd, 2012.

Your Happy Contessa

“The most important thing about getting somewhere is starting right where we are.”  Bruce Barton, American author, politician.  5 August, 1886 – 5 July, 1967.

Here’s to looking at you…Alba Maria…

Alba Maria…the one on the left.  It has been three years since you went to Heaven.  After going through the sadness of missing talking, laughing and crying with you sometimes, I am now at the stage of celebrating the blessing you were and still are somehow in my life.

Thank you for having been a great sister, for listening to all my drama…and thank you for doing all the algebra, trigonometry and physics homework and tests for me.  Probably I would be today without a high school diploma, because in the department of the sciences and math, my neuron population was non-existent at that time.  Now, I kind of enjoy doing my taxes and a lot more stuff dealing with mathematics.

I toast to you today and always.  I feel so happily blessed for having had you as my hermanita (little sister).

I love you today and always will…

Your big sister.

“You can never step in the same river twice.”  Heraclitus, Greek philosopher.  535 – 475 BC.

Temperature…and Tea Time…

Couldn’t wait till the official tea time in London…I know, the Queen is going to be somewhat upset that I could not wait for her.  Well…here in America, we do things whenever we feel like it…or when the weather is driving you so nuts, that you break protocol.

I had my best intentions since around 12:30 pm today.  I talked myself into waiting until 4 pm to have my piece of sweet for the day and a cup of lemon tea.  Love that tea!

First, increased the temperature on the thermostat, and then decided that the tea police was not around, so started to boil my water.  Cannot boil it too much.  Oxygen escapes, and tea does not taste as good.  According to the instructions.  Then, after two minutes, sat down and enjoyed my very hot cup of tea.

The moment of anticipation went by too fast.  Could I have a second cup of tea and another piece of good-for-you piece of cardboard tasting cereal bar?  Tried to walk around the apartment to make the decision and then, voila, decided to do a posting about the whole thing.  That will take care of my brain telling my stomach that there is room at the sac for more.  I imagine I am not alone in this constant battle.

The typing won…for the immediate moment.  I will let you know in a future episode how the battle ended.

So…it was today…14 January, 2012…the perfect day for a cup of tea.  High…48 degrees…in Florida.

Your Happy Contessa

“The older you get, the more important it is not to act your age.”  Ashleigh Brilliant, English-born author and cartoonist.  9 December, 1933.

Happy and warmer days are here again…Thanks God!!

Taking a stroll on the Avenue...

The past few days have been a real test to my endurance to the cold weather.

Robes, two to three pair of socks at once, sweat shirt and pants, scarf, and hardly moving at all.  The lowest temperature I resisted was 64 degrees.  At which time I said to myself,  this is getting real bad, my fingers are turning purple and I feel like a lion in a cage.  So I cranked up the heater to a compromising 70 degrees.  I was not being cheap…well…to a certain degree I thought I could handle it and save some money too.

I had to wait until the morning, because I was afraid the heating unit will react violently to me ignoring it and smoke and explosions may be a reaction.  Nothing really happened, but after a minute or so of releasing some heat, it turned itself off.  So I thought, here we go, I knew it!

After a few seconds, it came back up and showed me it was alive and kicking heat as fast as it could.  Of course, static is a by-product of heat, so sparkles sometimes fly, but it is either being purple or facing a few electric shocks.  Cannot have it all, I have learned.

Then, today, 6 January, it was up to 70 degrees.  Had to totally change my outfit or I was going to burn up with so much protection and look ridiculous to the pretty people of my village.

Another day in paradise…or warming up Florida.

So…it was today…6 January, 2012…a day to enjoy the fabulous weather I moved here for.

Your Happy Contessa

“To know what has to be done, then do it, comprises the whole philosophy of practical life.”  Sir William Osler, was a physician and one of the founding professors at Johns Hopkins Hospital.  12 July, 1849 – 29 December, 1919.

Today…high…48…tomorrow…low…29…in Florida!!!

Let’s start with the salutation first, Happy New You!!!

Now, to the line of business.  I moved to Florida because I do not fare well with the cold weather.

So this morning, I am thinking…Am I in a parallel universe?  High today 48 and low tomorrow 29.  What has happened?  Back to my sweats and good old robe.  Thanks God for my post menopausal temperature raising once in a while.  Yes, I am still dealing with those internal thermostats issues.  The brain does not get it.  It thinks I am cold, when I am not.  No pills taking, please.  Can only deal with one thing at a time.

I am planning to take good old Christmas tree today and all the season’s decor to keep me a bit warm.  Had my oatmeal already.  Also using scarves to be inside my home.

As you have noticed, this is my first posting of 2012.  Mayan calendar anyone?  We’ll take that whole garbanzo another day.

Sharing my experience in cool, no…cold Florida with all of you…so it was today…3 January, 2012.

Your Happy Contessa

“We all find time to do what we really want to do.  William Feather, American publisher and author.  25 August, 1889 – 7 January, 1981.

I wish all of you the happiest time of your lives…Merry Christmas…

I am breaking from the break…could not stay silent on this very special occasion…Christmas.  I am off to visit with my lovely daughter and a very special friend.

Going back to the cold weather, and all of you know how I feel about the cold weather.  But I hope that the mind over matter principle delivers just perfectly.

I am grateful as always for my beautiful and very credible life.  I feel great, feel the abundance of blessings, but most of all…I feel privileged to have so many generous, kind, thoughtful and fun people in my life.  Have to have a sense of humor to add spice to life.  I am all about laughing a great deal.  My favorite subject to laugh about is…myself.  Cannot take anything too serious.  It gets too heavy to handle.

I wish you all lots of laughter, hugging, peace and much, much love at this Christmas time and may the New Year, 2012, bring all of us closer together with much, much understanding and tolerance.

Merry Christmas!!! Feliz Navidad!!! Joyeux Noel!!!!!!

So…it was today…December 14, 2011…a day to come back and share my happiness.

Love,

Your Happy Contessa

“Happy Christmas to all, and to all a good night.”  From “The Night Before Christmas” by Clement C. Moore.  It was a tradition in our house to read this story on Christmas Eve and have all present at that moment sign the book and date it.

P.S. I will return sometime in January.  Thanks for letting me know how much you miss my almost daily blogging.  Ta ta.

I am taking a break…and by the way… Happy Birthday!!!!!

This is going to be a surprise to all of you as it was to me also.  The first birthday of this blog is November 15, 2011.  That is, tomorrow.  After 270 postings, 786 comments,      726 spam comments, and 8,879 views all-time, I have decided to take a long break.

I was watching a show where the word intention was mentioned quite a few times.  Then, of course, I questioned my intention of doing this blog.  I had valid and great intentions when I started.  The first one was to relate to my lovely daughter part of my story.  Also, among other things, I learned how to take better pictures, how to express myself a bit better;  learned the ins and outs of blogging to keep my neurons busy and alert, made new blogosphere friends, got to know other friends much better and all in all, it was exciting, motivating and enlightening.

Also, it gave me incentive and motivation to keep on going at that stage of my life when I was going through feeling so alone and with a need to be productive and to learning something new.  All is part of going through the seasons of life.

All that begins must come to an end, eventually.  Before that happens, the end, I want to experience new adventures and exploring other things before I convert back to total energy. What I am trying to say, it is time to move on to something else.  What is that “else”–I do not know right now, but have a slight idea.  When I decide what “it” is, I will share.

I want to express my gratitude to all of you who have been with me in this very interesting part of my life and appreciate each and all of your comments.

As a child, we grow up.  As an aging adult, I feel like the world is my oyster and everything is out there for me just for the asking.

Life is like that famous ice cream company promotes, it has many flavors and this one was very good, but I need to try new and different things.

Thank you again and I wish all and each one of you the best life has to offer.  I do wish the same for myself.  Maybe once in a while, I may be in touch, but do not know how soon.

So…it was today…14 November, 2011…a day to say until we meet again my dearest friends.

Your Happy Contessa

“It is hard to bring closure to some part of your life that you know very well, and welcome the unknown.  But fear must not stop us from venturing out and making new discoveries.”   Happy Contessa

Oops!…I forgot…

Hold it!  That’s what I am telling the frontal part of my brain.  The famous Perry moment has been dissected and analyzed so much that the subject of my posting today has been taken over by the incident this poor politician had last night.

It was a simple…”senior moment.”  Why don’t they call it what it is.  Brain freeze or overload or in the baby boomers’ lingo, a “senior moment.”

Do we still have a red telephone in the White House that our fearless leader is supposed to use in case of a nuclear threat?  Oops!  Cannot get confused with the colors of the phones.  It will send us flying into orbit, all of us, and I mean the whole planet.

This is so bad.  I feel I am being mean to the poor man, but when you are running for public office, and not just any public office, but the presidency of the United States of America, you better have your Wheaties every morning and your Senior Centrum with extra vitamin B and plenty of potassium every single day.

And to think I thought I would not have anything to write about today.

If you have cockroaches behind your walls, any dirty laundry, any mental stress, or any little honeys hiding waiting to be discovered, please spare us the embarrassing moments some of you are putting us through.  I couldn’t run for office, because right away they will say I cannot be understood, my accent is too heavy.  That’s why I cannot be a U.S. Senator.  I know my weaknesses.  What a waste.  A woman with so much talent like me cannot serve all of you, just because of my accent.  Just kidding.  I have plenty in my life the way it is right now.

My fellow citizens, before you think about running for public office, please, I implore you, Google yourselves, look at your Yearbooks and try to remember, after you have taken your Centrum vitamins, if there are some dots that can be connected by somebody else.  And remember guys, keep those zippers really, really closed.  Don’t let a moment of weakness outshine your moment of Oops!

So…it was today, 10 November, 2011…a day to remember…or oops, forget.

Oh, yes, I almost forgot, have the loveliest of weekends and I shall return on Monday.

Your Happy Contessa

“Too much talk, beware trouble…”  Old Chinese proverb.

U.S.A. Made…and my own handywoman capabilities….

This is the way it looked when I purchased.  Very heavy box.  My Superwoman skills came very handy when loading and unloading the heavy bookcase into the cart, into my car, and into my apartment.  You don’t want to know what my mind was processing while doing all of this.

But…I wanted a small bookcase in my bedroom, and of course, inexpensive also.  $16 plus tax, but the best part is…it is made in the U.S.A.!!!!!!  I was searching for an old little bookcase, but it never showed up into my life, so this is it.

I am making it my purpose to check label for provenance.  Cannot fight La Grand China, but I am finding quite a few items made in our own soil.  That translates into jobs for our population.  We need to do our part.  We should ask retailers to show when a product is made here in our country.  It feels good to consume our own products.

Took it out of the box.  Thanks God I remembered when Ron and I put one together and we didn’t check front side vs. back side.  We had to disassemble the whole bookcase.  That was a larger one.  So I prepared myself and checked to match all sides, had the right tools and there I went.  Some of the muscles on my arms are more prominent after I finished putting the bookcase together.  Had to take deep breaths while pushing the screws into place.

And…after one hour and a half…drumrolls, please…

Now, I do not want to fill it up totally, because aesthetic is very important.  Things have to be utilitarian, but with a degree of flair.  C’est la vie in my digs.

I know I can…I knew I could.  I am gearing up for the next project…the Christmas tree.

So…it was today…9 November, 2011…a day that I put together a bookcase and feeling very good for my accomplishment.

Your Happy Contessa

“The strength of any plan depends on timing.”  Michel E. De Montaigne, one of the most influential writers of the French Renaissance.  28 February, 1533 – 13 September, 1592.