You reach a point sometimes that there is a general feeling of numbness in your life. This is dictated by the circumstances around you, or by what you are thinking.
How can I look at the pictures and listen to the news and see people’s disbelief in their eyes, like not yet grasping that this is happening to them, and not feel numb. Sort of like they are in limbo. That feeling is transmitted to you even if you don’t realize it.
That’s when that word “Resilience” comes back into play again. We must go on. We are bigger and emotionally stronger than the circumstances. That’s when we become resilient. It is a process that takes time and each individual has her or his own time and way to do it. We must respect that and support them in any way we can.
It is not in my psych today to say much…the circumstances are speaking for themselves. We are just witnesses to the moment.
I’ll leave you with something beautiful to focus on when the moment is just right.
Even in the midst of darkness, there’s always a gleam of hope and light in the distance.
So it was today, 18th April, 2011…we must keep on going on.
Your Happy Contessa